I should mention that I've seen a gynecologist and she says there's no sort of physical impediment involved and that if I practice I'll be able to do it, but it's so uncomfortable. It's not getting easier. When I visit the gynecologist I have to be tanked up on valium, and I'm the sort of person who can go through major surgical operations without flinching. I don't have any history of sexual abuse. There's no reason for this problem to be affecting me, but it is, and I know I'm not the only one.
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Unless she expressly says to you that she thinks you are the best fingerer ever, consider yourself to suck at it. Imagine someone poking their finger, or slamming two fingers hard and fast, into your mouth or butthole. We have provided as many diagrams as we can without making this a comic book. This post contains photographs of real vulvas, and lots of diagrams. You have been warned. Fingering a vagina is not an activity conducted in isolation: it is part of a sexual experience with another human being. This should be your primary focus, not the finger-in-vagina action.
Do guys really like fingering a girl and do girls really like to get fingered? These are the important questions I sometimes ask myself. I have been mulling over fingering for the last two days in an attempt to get to the bottom of it. I will pen my thoughts as they arise.
Finger banging is an underrated art. When done right, it's incredibly hot. But whether you're new to sex or an unofficial vagina expert, fingering can be incredibly intimidating — everyone has different preferences, and hey, anatomy is complicated. They say sex is like pizza: When it's bad, it's still good. We beg to differ, especially when it comes to sex with your hands.